Awaken the strong, confident you waiting inside
It's time!
You thought you were quite a confident person, sure of yourself and your decisions in life, until now. Suddenly you don't recognise yourself. You feel so vulnerable overwhelmed and anxious, all the time And it is not shifting no matter what you do. It is quite frankly exhausting.
You understand some of your fears rationally. Everyone keeps telling you it is normal to be a bit nervous. But you know it is more than that. You are putting a brave face on it and making all the right noises, but inside you are outright terrified. You've tried everything. that normally works for you to no avail. Hypnobirthing is just not cutting it for you. You can't relax no matter how much meditation you do or visualisations you listen to,
The calm, confident birth you dream of seems ever further out of reach.
What's more everyone and their dog has an opinion on what's best for you, including your partner, and they are not scared to let you know. You feel bombarded from every side and you are no longer sure what's best or right for you. What you do have is a niggle. This little voice whispering away to you and it won't go away. You are just not sure what to do with it and where to go from here.
Here is one of the missing pieces that you are looking for.
When you become pregnant, your body recognises that change of state. The last time it was experiencing this if you are a first time mum, was when you were a baby. How was that for you? Often the overwhelming feelings that arise for you out of nowhere are those activated by the wounded baby that still lives inside you.
This is where my work comes in.
I support you to heal the birth trauma that you experienced when you were born that has been reactivated now you are pregnant.
One of the reasons this feels so impossible and your fear has been hard to shift is because your body remembers what your conscious mind does not. So even as you try to reassure yourself that it will all be ok and you were designed for this, if your body knows a different truth it will speak up in its own way. It will freeze, it will shake, it will cause you to feel constantly anxious and on edge.
For how you see the world and operate within it is literally built into your body as it is created. As you grow and are born, you are not separate from your environment, your mum’s experience or her history and these all shape and mould you. Your experiences in the womb and birth hardwire you for trust and love or vigilance and anxiety. They impact your confidence to speak up and ask for what is right for you. They influence your energetic presence which spreads out around you and the outer world responds accordingly.
We explore your birth blueprint and reset your system so that you trust your body and soul. We work together for you to regain the confidence to choose what you really want without deferring to others opinions. The are, at the end of the day, not the ones carrying the baby. When you centre yourself and your needs in this way without the guilt that plagued you previously you feel amazing. That inner conviction that you are on the right path. The peace that comes with being fully in alignment on all levels, in partnership with your baby.
"When I started working with Charlotte I was somewhat resigned to another traumatic hospital birth. I was so disempowered after my first childbirth that it seemed beyond me to consider any other option but consultant-led hospital care. After only a few sessions, I had a huge breakthrough and now working towards having a homebirth! I finally feel safe and empowered to decide what serves me best."
Gulara Vincent, Devon, UK.
I'm interested. Tell me more about what's involved and how it works.
I'm so glad you are interested. This work is powerful as are you and we need you. It is truly time for us to rise together and collectively create the world we want to live in and leave for our children.
First step is to talk with me and we can work out a bespoke Confident Birth Package that meets your needs.
"Birth Confidence Sessions massively surpassed my expectations. I wanted to explore why I had the experience I had with my previous birth and have a different experience, a natural birth. I got that and so much more! I really feel that by the time I came to give birth the second time I'd experienced a complete paradigm shift and had faced and laid to rest much of the fear that could have got in mine and my baby's way. I also experienced a journey of self discovery that went way beyond birth and has changed me as a person and the close relationships I have. I made peace with parts of myself and people from my past in a way that has left me feeling more whole, It has been a privilege to work with you and was worth every penny and more."
Zoe Challenor - Birmingham UK.
Hi I'm Charlotte Kanyi and I facilitate the magic! That's what it feels like. when centuries of oppression you hadn't noticed you were carrying just slide off. It's the relief and freedom when patterns that have always been there are gone and you can claim your own space, your way. It's how I felt when I birthed my 3 sons, each time, at home in the ordinary yet extraordinary, undisturbed way we were designed to do.
I was guided to these choices after a healing journey that explored my own birth experience and my life in the womb. I was determined that my children would not go through the trauma that I did and cleared out every fear and imprint standing in the way of the birth I wanted for them and me.
I subsequently realised that what I experienced was rare and not even on many people's radar as a possibility - joyful, confident birth without interference - was what lead me to specialise my business in this direction.
" Charlotte helped me to clear the negativity around my second birth with ease. She helped me uncover the depth and breadth of the hurt. Her warm, insightful nature is calming and supportive. I feel lighter and my connection to my daughter feels lighter and brighter as well."
Nikki Smith - Australia.
Want to try out NPA for yourself?
It is a 6 line spoken word process that opens doors and allows energy to move in magical ways. Its simple, yet effective. You can learn more from the founder and custodian Joel Young at the link below.
Learn more about The NPA Process.
Download your free Worksheet here
* Not everyone who chooses to become a parent identifies as a mother or a woman. I recognise this and if you book with me will use the pronouns and identity that you align with.